User guide

From attention to evidence.

A practical guide for participants and facilitators—from the first two-minute articulation through a useful match, a dated commitment, and a lightweight evidence check.

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At a glance

The four stages

01

Articulate

Describe what has your attention, what would help it move, and what you can realistically offer. This is not a pitch competition; early ideas, questions, and offers are welcome.

02

Choose

A facilitator reviews possible pairs or triads. If you receive a suggestion, you can accept, pass, or say “not now.” Contact details are shared only after everyone agrees.

03

Act

The group explores one useful opening question. Each person can then record their own specific action, date, and the evidence that would show it happened.

04

Verify

A short private follow-up asks whether the commitment is done, moving, stuck, or paused. Completed work counts only when there is evidence and the facilitator verifies it.

For participants

Your journey

No account required
  1. Share what has your attention.

    The intake takes about two minutes. Name a project, early idea, issue, offer, or area you are exploring. Explain the next uncertainty, the help that would be useful, and what you can contribute.

  2. Receive one carefully reviewed suggestion.

    The facilitator may send a named link by WhatsApp or email. It shows who is in the proposed conversation, why the match may be useful, and a suggested opening question.

  3. Choose freely.

    Say yes, not now, or pass. Passing needs no explanation. A joint introduction happens only when everyone accepts—or when a group has already met during the event.

  4. Have the conversation.

    Use the suggested question as a starting point, not a script. A useful outcome may be a small experiment, an introduction, a visit, a draft, a decision, or an honest choice not to proceed.

  5. Record your own dated commitment.

    Your named link asks what you will do, by when, and what observable evidence will show it happened. Each person owns and edits only their own commitment.

Stage 04 explained

What “Verify” means

Verify does not mean checking whether someone stayed busy or used the app. It means closing the loop on the specific commitment they chose.

If someone committed to make an introduction, evidence might be the sent message. For a site visit, it might be a confirmed date or short note. For a draft, it might be the document itself. The facilitator checks that the evidence matches the commitment before marking it verified.

North-star completionParticipant reports “Done” + evidence is recorded + facilitator verifies it.

For facilitators

Using the review desk

1. Review the landscape

See participants across projects, early ideas, issues, offers, and exploratory interests without forcing everyone into one category.

2. Draft the room

Use fast topic-first matching or optional AI-assisted matching. Both produce editable pairs and triads; neither sends messages.

3. Apply judgment

Edit weak wording, remove poor suggestions, approve useful groups, and copy invitation or introduction text when the timing is right.

4. Open commitments

If a group met in person, use “Group met · open commitments.” The post-meeting message includes each person’s private commitment link.

5. Follow the evidence

The Commitments tab shows owner, match, due date, expected evidence, pulse status, and the final verification control.

6. Protect the live room

Use the live dataset only for the real event. Use a private test room for practice, training, demonstrations, and experiments.

New to facilitating this process?Use the complete tutorial and live-session runbook.
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Safe exploration

Private test rooms

Every browser gets its own private demo room. Test submissions, anonymized profiles, matches, commitments, pulses, and settings stay inside that room. They do not appear in Nadia’s live room, Nadia’s private test room, or another facilitator’s demo.

Try the participant experience

Complete the real four-step intake without entering contact details. Your response is added only to your private demo landscape.

Run a facilitator demo

Open your private test room, enter the facilitator access key, load 18 anonymized profiles, generate matches, and test the full commitment loop.

Use “New private test room” in the facilitator desk whenever you want a clean sandbox. A new room does not delete an earlier one; it simply separates the next demo.